About a year ago, I was hosting a training session on the topic of emotional intelligence. I asked the professionals in the room to shout out some of the feelings they experience on an average workday.
I heard: happy, frustrated, stressed, angry, overwhelmed, fulfilled, engaged, irritated, and a variety of other applicable words.
But then, I heard someone shout a word that made me pause: Invisible.
Ouch. That one hit me in the gut.
Is there anything worse? I’ve definitely experienced it myself and I can assure you: Feeling invisible at work is truly miserable. No matter what you do, it never seems good enough to garner positive attention. You feel totally alone and taken advantage of. You start to wonder if anyone would care—or even notice—if you didn’t show up for a week. But then, of course, you know you’d suddenly become hyper-visible if that were to happen!
I know from my own experience early in my career that my visibility issues were largely of my own making. My behaviors contributed to the situation in a big way. I expected recognition and visibility simply for showing up. I didn’t understand just how competitive the workplace can be or how difficult it can be to stand out from the crowd.
Eventually, I took matters into my own hands. I was sick of being invisible. I was tired of waiting around for people to acknowledge my presence. I decided that, if I really wanted to get noticed, I was going to have to do things that warranted the spotlight. I was going to make myself impossible to overlook.
And guess what? It worked! I’m living proof that you have the power to raise your visibility in the workplace by taking the right kind of action. I can assure you that, no matter what your career goals, more visibility is always a good thing. When you’re visible, you earn more rewards and more recognition. When people know who you are and what you’re capable of, they’re more likely to send opportunities your way. Visibility is a fundamental requirement for getting where you want to go in your career.
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